wow, michael, i'm sure you meant this in jest, but making cracks about a
woman having to wax to impress is pretty horribly sexist and leaves a
real bad taste in my mouth.
and perhaps you have an understanding with anibal that this kind of
joking around is okay. i have lots of friends i know i can safely tease
in all sorts of offensive ways. however, this is a public list with
lots of folks who don't know one another. especially since you say you
don't know annibal, it's really tempting to read your joke as
straight-up sexist bullshit.
given how much really good thought and discussion i've seen this
community put into identifying and rooting out sexist bullshit, i gotta
say i think you're out of line.
hope you don't take offense,
benB
chicago community bike project
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'every normal man must be tempted, at times, to spit on his hands, hoist
the black flag, and begin slitting throats.'
-h.l. mencken